When a couple hits the sheets for the first time everything seems exciting. Just their naked body is enough to get the juices flowing. But as time wares on the same 5 positions get a little monotonous.
Uneventful, or as I like to call it: vanilla sex, must be avoided. Experimenting new ways to turn each other on is like lighting a new flame under your relationship. It can lead to better, longer lasting sex, a stronger bond, and a little extra lust for life.
When sex with your partner is exciting the whole world smiles with you. Maybe it’s because you can’t wipe that sexy smirk off your face and people reciprocate by smiling back at you. It could even be that the extra spring in your step is contagious and your neighbor, mailman, and best friend all want in.
Keeping your sex life spicy will heighten the level of intimacy in your relationship, strengthen your immune system, and lower your chances of developing depression. All it takes is a little imagination, possibly a trip to a sex shop, and really putting yourself out there to the other person. Here are a few tips to get you started
Send racy photos to your lover. Peek-a-boo shots are an instant turn on. A sexy text photo lets the receiver know that thinking of him/her makes you horny, and you can’t wait to hit the sheets with them. Plus, shooting an eye candy text supplies am instant shot of sexiness to your mates day, turning them on. In turn, making them think private sexy thoughts about you.
Go shopping at sex shops together Adding a little novelty to your relationship can bring back the honeymoon period fast. The best part about being in a relationship is getting to push your personal boundaries and explore new fantasies. Sex shops supply more then sex toys. They have lingerie, x-rated movies, oils and lubricants, bondage ropes, nipple clamps, racy periodicals, informative sex books, and excessively high heels.
>Get it on outside the bedroom (or couch). Making out at a bar or sneaking off to an empty room for heavy petting (or a little penetration) can make the sex explode by the time you get home. The turn on is thrill of getting caught. This revs up the fight or flight response causing the pulse to quicken heightening all physical touches.